“The Exception”

13 Dec

So, another one of my friends got engaged this past weekend. I’ve seen her go from some hard times in relationships to this amazing one right now.  We all knew this one was different…  The way she smiles, acts, is “care-free” and so herself shows someone who has finally found the person that really gets her, and would not change a thing about her.

They both were very set on not getting married again after each of their divorce, even after meeting and expressing their love for each other they still remained with that thought but, obviously something changed.  He said “you made me change my mind, will you marry me?”

That line made me think of that last scene of “He’s just not that into you” when he says “you’re my exception”.  Every girl meets a guy (or guys) that she wants to hear those words from, unfortunately it doesn’t always happen, and we move on.  My friend did, a couple of times, and she finally found the one that spoke those words, and meant it.  It’s not wanting to change someone, It’s being so special to someone that they want to share their life with you.

The other great thing about their story is that it shows how that moment can happen at any time in life.  Girls might think that they should be married (with kids) at a certain age but truth is, there’s no set time or age for this.  When it happens, it happens and no matter what age, place, time it does, you’ll be extremely happy it did.

Lose the “preconceived dates” that society, or you, have put on yourself.  Live your life, be open to experiences, and let things happen when the time is right.  Don’t force it, what’s meant to be will be.

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